Step 1: Prepare

The downsizing process naturally brings up a wide range of emotions, and it's completely normal to feel them. Some of the most common feelings people experience during this transition include overwhelm, nostalgia, fear of change, and excitement.

 

For many, just thinking about where to begin the process can feel overwhelming. Others worry they’ll get stuck in sentimental feelings that make it hard to let go. And for those also facing a move, the fear of change can feel almost paralyzing. If you're experiencing any of these emotions, you're not alone—these feelings are incredibly common.. 

 

The most effective way to move through these emotions is to first acknowledge that they’re real. Ignoring them only gives them more power. The next step is to have a manageable plan. With a plan, you'll have the process broken down into smaller steps, in priority order, so you know what the most important tasks are and what to do next. 

With Jess Lex Homes, we assist with creating your plan and timeframe. We provide support, encouragement, and a listening ear as you complete the steps on your downsizing journey. You probably haven't done this before, but we have—many times—and look forward to sharing our experience to make the process easy.  

Once you've spent some time on your preparation, you can move on to Step 2. 

  

Step 2: Declutter

Decluttering is one of the most essential—and often emotional—steps in the journey of downsizing. For long-time homeowners, letting go of years of accumulated belongings can feel overwhelming, but approaching it with a clear, manageable plan makes a big difference.

 

Keep in mind, you are starting a process, not a one-day task. For many, it may take months or even years to fully work through. You’ll get better at these decisions as you go, and it’s completely normal to sort through things more than once before making final decisions. 

 

You may want to categorize your things into 5 different piles. Here are a few helpful tips and guidelines to get you started with the sorting. 

  

Decluttering isn’t just about making space—it’s about making room for what matters most. Whether you're preparing to move or simplifying your home, this process helps create clarity and calm. Plus, it makes the next phase—whether buying, selling, or settling in—feel far less overwhelming.

Step 3: Move

Maybe you've found yourself looking around your home and wondering, "Do we need this much space?" Or maybe you’re starting to feel the pull of something simpler — a smaller home, fewer stairs, less to maintain — but you're not quite sure what that really looks like.

 

This is where the process shifts from preparation to action. And while it’s a big step, it doesn’t have to be a stressful one.

 

With Jess Lex Homes, you will have our expertise in helping long-time homeowners make this transition with clarity, care, and customized support. Whether you’re moving within the same city or relocating closer to loved ones, our role is to handle the logistics and reduce the overwhelm. We take into account your timing, lifestyle needs, financial goals, and emotional readiness to build a plan that works for you.

The Move step is where it all comes together. From handling offers to coordinating the closing, our team is here to guide you every step of the way so you can move with confidence and peace of mind.